Brain Training for a Smoother Menopause Transition

Mental practices like cognitive behavioral therapy and mindfulness can improve sleep, stress, hot flashes, and much more. They’re also easier than you think. 
 
By Selene Yeager
 
As athletes, we train our brains all the time. When our legs start screaming at mile 17 of a marathon, we focus on our breath and practice positive self-talk. We visualize our muscles working in unison to crush a deadlift PR. We take slow deep inhalations and exhalations to calm race day nerves. We can harness these same skills to manage the challenges of menopause. 
 
That’s because, though we can’t always control our physical reactions whether hot flashes, race morning butterflies, calf cramps, or waking up on soaked sheets at 3 a.m., we can reframe our reactions and thinking patterns so we don’t succumb to runaway stress and make things worse, but rather rein in our emotions so we can get on top of our needs to feel better. 
 
CBT For the Win
Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), the practice of improving your mood or state of mind by intentionally changing your thinking patterns, comes up a lot on the Hit Play Not Pause podcast. 
 
In episode 35 The Menopause Manifesto with Dr. Jen Gunter, she explained that cognitive behavioral therapy can help women deal with disruptive menopause symptoms like hot flashes. In episode 20 Save Your Sleep with sleep scientist Dr. Sophie Bostock, she talked about how cognitive behavioral therapy for insomnia can work wonders for helping menopausal women improve their sleep. 
 
Research backs it up. A 2019 study published in the journal Menopause found that women practicing cognitive behavioral therapy enjoyed significant improvements in hot flashes, depression, sleep disturbances, and sexual concerns. The study, which included 71 women seeking treatment for menopausal symptoms, reported that the women still had improved symptoms at a three-month follow up. A 2022 study in Climacteric echos those findings, especially when it comes to relieving anxiety and depression during menopause. 
 
CBT works by disrupting the cycle of physical symptoms, thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. The way you think about a symptom, like a hot flash, can affect your emotions and behaviors, which can increase your anxiety and tension and, in turn, make your symptoms worse, setting up a vicious, repeating cycle.
 
For example, when a hot flash is coming on, it may ramp up stress and negative emotions and amplify them. A CBT strategy would be taking deep breaths and thinking more analytically about it, explained Dr. Alisha Brosse, a licensed psychologist and founding partner of the Boulder Center for Cognitive and Behavioral Therapies, in episode 43 of Hit Play Not Pause, Calm Your Mind. 
 
“You may feel a hot flash coming on and think, ‘My thermoregulation really is off…they weren’t kidding.’ Maybe I can figure out what’s triggering this. I had a glass of wine. That could be it,” Brosse says. “That doesn’t mean you won’t feel emotions around it, but it lets you be more detached.” That turns down your stress response and also improves your ability to problem-solve.
 
For more specific examples of applying CBT to some of the most common menopausal symptoms, there’s a great tutorial here at the website Women’s Health Concern, which is an arm of the British Menopause Society.
 
To be clear, CBT won’t magically make your symptoms go away. But it can definitely make them easier to manage and lessen their severity, which is often all you need to get on with the task at hand, whether it’s racing your bike, running a marathon, or just trying to get a good night’s rest!
 

 
Make a Moment for Mindfulness
Mindfulness is another useful mental practice for menopausal women. In its simplest form, it’s deliberately drawing your attention to the present moment and letting your thoughts come and go without judging or becoming emotionally caught up in them. 
 
Practiced consistently, research shows mindfulness can lower cortisol levels long-term, which is particularly good for menopausal women and/or endurance athletes who are at risk for elevated levels of the stress hormone. It can also help improve your sleep.
 
If your menopausal monkey brain would rather ruminate on catastrophic scenarios than spare you a few moments for serenity, Brosse suggests giving yourself designated worry time. 
 
“This is a great strategy for people who are very worry-prone. Set a timer and give yourself 10 minutes. Say, ‘Okay mind, where do you need to go? This is your time to worry.’”
 
The key is really devoting that time to worrying, she says. You can problem-solve and strategize later. In that designated time, take each worry your brain conjures up, worry it to pieces, and move on to the next. When the timer goes off, go do something completely different. Make lunch. Walk the dog. Go back to a project you were working on. If a worry starts creeping in, say, ‘Okay mind, you can absolutely worry, but now’s not the time. You already had some designated time today, and you’ll have more tomorrow.’
 
Over time your brain starts recognizing that worrying isn’t very productive, you won’t need the worry time quite as much, and you’ll be able to practice mindfulness without unwanted worries crashing in.